Have you ever wondered why a friend that used to know stop talking to you? I find that people often just stop Their time has expired with you. I feel like I’ve lost so many friendships over the last two years. I feel like it happened for reason they were my friends for a season. But often you get friends to try to check up on you but on social media. Why is it a double standard that I must check in with you but you can check in with me? Is it because you just want to see my pictures and how I’m doing not really what’s going on in my life . I much more than the things posted online and you know that !
I know that people outgrow each other or simply they stop communicating with you . Do you find yourself being the only one to reach out to them ? Yes me to and it doesn’t bother me anymore because if you want to be my life you be here . We get busy , schedules conflict with each other and we lose track of time but the phone works both ways . I mean it the phone works both ways check in with a friend . There are some friendships they don’t need checking in constantly, because the strength of the friendship can endure time lost. A real friend will grow with you , cry with you and keep planting the soil in your relationship no questions asked .My thing is if your friendship cannot withstand time apart or hardship, let alone life then a There are some friendships they don’t need checking in constantly, because the strength of the friendship can endure time lost. My thing is if your friendship cannot withstand pain let alone life than that friendship is not worth having!
I stopped blaming myself for lost friendships and instead I enjoyed the very little ones I have , and they have blossomed! Truth is I don’t owe you anything except my loyalty to those who have shown me their true colors .